{"id":198,"date":"2014-09-02T20:17:58","date_gmt":"2014-09-02T20:17:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/trinitatsolerturu.wordpress.com\/?p=198"},"modified":"2020-10-09T12:36:46","modified_gmt":"2020-10-09T10:36:46","slug":"el-mon-es-pels-forts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/trinitatsoler.cat\/es\/2014\/09\/02\/el-mon-es-pels-forts\/","title":{"rendered":"EL M\u00d3N \u00c9S PELS FORTS?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><div class=\"post-video\"><iframe data-tf-not-load=\"1\" title=\"PAPAS Y MAMAS - DADDIES &amp; MUMMIES (English subtitles)\" width=\"1165\" height=\"874\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/GcRY4YQNvQg?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div><\/p>\n<p>Fa temps, quan estudiava articles sobre bullying o assatjament escolar, molta gent es preguntava per qu\u00e8 moltes vegades l&#8217;infant que havia viscut situacions de maltractament, o les havia vist donar-se amb els seus familiars, de vegades no condemnava els fets, ni es posava de part de la persona que ho patia, sin\u00f3 que la seva forma d&#8217;actuar acabava essent com la de la figura maltractadora. Per qu\u00e8 es d\u00f3na aix\u00f2? Molt senzill: en infants m\u00e9s petits, nom\u00e9s hi ha dues figures referents en la parella de cuidadors. Si un dels dos cuidadors sempre &#8220;reb&#8221;, i l&#8217;altre sempre &#8220;guanya&#8221;, l&#8217;infant el que associa \u00e9s precisament que al m\u00f3n nom\u00e9s hi ha dos nivells de persones: &#8220;Els forts&#8221; i &#8220;els febles&#8221;. Si no vols ser el &#8220;feble&#8221;, actues com el &#8220;fort&#8221;, utilitzant totes les &#8220;eines&#8221; que el referent que tenies t&#8217;ha ofert: maltractar, escridassar, ridiculitzar, desafiar&#8230; Bona part de la reeducaci\u00f3 consisteix en fer veure que hi ha molts altres estils referents que tenen relacions m\u00e9s coordials i saludables, i aquest \u00e9s un dels motius pels quals els psic\u00f2legs sempre aconsellen als pares i mares, que els seus conflictes no els discuteixin davant dels fills\/es, ja que pels jovenets que no els costi perdre el respecte a l&#8217;altre i que es posin r\u00e0pidament de part d&#8217;una de les figures paternes, pot ser una font d&#8217;idees de com &#8220;atacar&#8221; perqu\u00e8 &#8220;no t&#8217;ataquin&#8221;.<\/p>\n<!--themify_builder_content-->\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-198\" data-postid=\"198\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-198 themify_builder tf_clear\">\n    <\/div>\n<!--\/themify_builder_content-->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fa temps, quan estudiava articles sobre bullying o assatjament escolar, molta gent es preguntava per qu\u00e8 moltes vegades l&#8217;infant que havia viscut situacions de maltractament, o les havia vist donar-se amb els seus familiars, de vegades no condemnava els fets, ni es posava de part de la persona que ho patia, sin\u00f3 que la seva [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":588,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"video","meta":{"spay_email":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[33,59,60,103,114,133],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/trinitatsoler.cat\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/2015-07-25-18-31-10-1-scaled.jpg","yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v15.8 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>EL M\u00d3N \u00c9S PELS FORTS? 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